Him: Friendship with my lover is very important
Me: I never had a guy be my bestfriend first
Him: Building "the relationship" takes time. Build it first then get in it
Me: I never thought about it that way...but it makes a lot of sense
Him: Lots of people don't
Me: Its hard to build with someone though when people are working on other projects with other people
Him: True. You may see other projects (houses) but you only buy one house (relationship) to move in
Me: How do you know when its complete enough to move in?
Him: Its built with features wanted by both parties. Its complete when "both" are ready to move in
