What did I tell you? I woke up this morning and found two missed calls from him as well as a text saying "Jocelyn can we talk please. Call my phone. Work out our differences." Its follow-ups like this that let me know Im not in the wrong-smh- So this was our final conversation via text:
Me: I cant fault you for all of the yelling because I also have a a bad habit of yelling when Im upset. But yelling is all that I tend to do when Im upset. The way that you demeaned me through name calling on the phone and through text was so inappropriate and so out of line that I could never be comfortable around you again. Within two days, you've managed to call me "a stupid ass, insane, a lunatic, a mental case, an argumentative ass clown, and also through in a "fuck you." And weve only known each other for one week. At no point, especially this early should any person feel comfortable enough to speak to the other this way. I understand that I made you angry by having an attitude with you, but if my attitude causes you to react that way after just 1 week, then we need to rethink furthering things.
Him: Understandable but I dont want to lose you.
Me: I understand but you didnt have me yet...you were trying to get to know me to see if we would be a good match. And its clear that we are not. I dont see how you can disagree with that afer this weekend...
Him: Make it work then. Both of us can do what we need to do to make it work.
Me: Its not that simple. I dont feel comfortable with you.
Him: Over an argument jocelyn...wow, people argue everyday.
Me: That was more than an argument...and I hope you dont think that is normal...Its not.
Him: Ok, so now what?
Me: So maybe when things calm down, we can try being friends.
Him: Ok whatever makes you happy. I'll be here when you are ready.
